How to deal with a lazy girlfriend?
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Originally posted by cannonprinter:
How many people in sgforums can go out with your partner or friends without spending money? you bring your lunch box along too? or you just plainly sit in the void deck and play your guitar?
no offence but i think you did not put yourself in my shoes and would never understand how i feel.
If breaking up is so easy then i guess you have not truly love someone before.
Who said anything about not spending any money when going out. I said to ask her to pay her share. You are not expecting her to pay your share of the bill right?
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She no job ar ?
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I understand you super well... cus I was in an almost same situation... is like she dun ask for money, she is still gf, no food to eat then still we need to give money or pay... still the same cannot leave her die...
worst thing, the other party doesn't want to work...
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juz tell her tis
u dun wan to work, then i dun wan to pay for ur expenses u
got that ...
if she KP
then u say let break up
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Show her your "roller coaster"!!!!
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Please hor, girl got income doesn't mean she havta go Dutch wat.
No guys had ever let me pay when we go out on dates. They take pride in knowing they are good providers.
You say you have to maintain your family ? What family, you got children to take care of issit ?
You epic fail lah.
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Originally posted by cannonprinter:
Never ask money from me but every time go out together i must pay right? Where got nothing to take care? Every time money money until i no money.
You want to go out.. or she wants to go out ?
I believe she wouldn't mind staying home with you, save the expenses.
No money, then stay home. Watch TV, eat Maggie.
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Seriously speaking, if she act blur made u pay, voice it out man.
After couple of reminders and if she still purposely, refuse to go find a job, den u should know what to do.
All day long people always say wife is the CFO, this kind of girl is not worth being a CFO.
Behind a successful man, there is a woman, behind a man of failure, there also is a woman. Just depends which type of woman u have.
I a society like this, you as a man need to plan and care for your own future. Love is blind, but don't love blindly.
All the best! hope she changes.
Cheerios
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make her work. be her pimp.
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没有钱, å°±ä¸�è¦�å¦äººå®¶æ‹�æ‹–/结婚。
害人害己。
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It's easy . From the next date onwards , tell her that you guys are going dutch . She can't possibly live on your forever right .
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Originally posted by cannonprinter:
She no money no point going dutch. In the end i still have to pay. Anyways, i think i have made up my mind. I will try talking to her again and prepare to say good bye if things did not go well.
no money right, thats why gotta get her to work.
but before that gotta highlight ur financial problem.... this part must put down your ego down a bit because some guys duno how to say out the go dutch part.
you 2 need to talk to work it out.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Please hor, girl got income doesn't mean she havta go Dutch wat.
No guys had ever let me pay when we go out on dates. They take pride in knowing they are good providers.
You say you have to maintain your family ? What family, you got children to take care of issit ?
You epic fail lah.
Obviously you don't pay for the pub bills and electric bills. Obviously you don't pay property taxes. Obviously you don't support your parents. You don't know how it feels. So i would appreciate if you don't say anything if you don't understand the situation. Thanks.
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Originally posted by Hello Kitty:
没有钱, å°±ä¸�è¦�å¦äººå®¶æ‹�æ‹–/结婚。
害人害己。
Didn't know things will turn out like that. Everything was sweet at first.
Anyways, i talked to her. She gave me attitude. I think it is time for a break up.
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Like all the other forumers said...just dump her
Eventually you guys are gonna break up if this issue is not resolved anyway
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Originally posted by cannonprinter:
Didn't know things will turn out like that. Everything was sweet at first.
Anyways, i talked to her. She gave me attitude. I think it is time for a break up.
sarpork u!
imagine if u were to marry her in the future
first one to walk out on u if u have any difficulties lo.
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She want suck your blood dry lah
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Originally posted by hisoka:
Who said anything about not spending any money when going out. I said to ask her to pay her share. You are not expecting her to pay your share of the bill right?
popikachu answered your question.
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Originally posted by ChoCoChips:
sarpork u!
imagine if u were to marry her in the future
first one to walk out on u if u have any difficulties lo.
Ya lo. I made up my mind. Don't know want to sms or tell her directly.
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Originally posted by cannonprinter:
Obviously you don't pay for the pub bills and electric bills. Obviously you don't pay property taxes. Obviously you don't support your parents. You don't know how it feels. So i would appreciate if you don't say anything if you don't understand the situation. Thanks.
So you have a poor family, then it's better you get a girlfriend who's family is rich.
If she also from poor family, even with a job, all her income LIKE YOU.. will have to go pay her family's utilities bills and taxes.
In the end.. she also poor and cannot pay for entertainment when she goes out with you.
So , both of you still have to stay home , watch TV and eat maggie.
I'm surprised she havn't dumped you already.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
So you have a poor family, then it's better you get a girlfriend who's family is rich.
If she also from poor family, even with a job, all her income LIKE YOU.. will have to go pay her family's utilities bills and taxes.
In the end.. she also poor and cannot pay for entertainment when she goes out with you.
So , both of you still have to stay home , watch TV and eat maggie.
I'm surprised she havn't dumped you already.
?? why suddenly flame ? Not about poor girls or rich girls. Just that Ts income is not enough to support his gf without her working. Thus she needs to work to lighten the burden. I dont find that anything wrong.
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Originally posted by TTFU:
?? why suddenly flame ? Not about poor girls or rich girls. Just that Ts income is not enough to support his gf without her working. Thus she needs to work to lighten the burden. I dont find that anything wrong.
Not flaming.. Just stating facts.
She can work.. to lighten the couple "entertainment" expenses. But if she has to pay for her own family expenses like TS, wouldn't that put the couple back to square one again ?
The girl is already not asking for money from TS. She probably getting allowances from her family.
You think a girl has no personal expenses ? We do.
Which guy wants a girl who don't present herself well when they go out ?
The grooming expenses who pays ?
TS is so full of himself, that's the WRONG part.
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
Not flaming.. Just stating facts.
She can work.. to lighten the couple "entertainment" expenses. But if she has to pay for her own family expenses like TS, wouldn't that put the couple back to square one again ?
The girl is already not asking for money from TS. She probably getting allowances from her family.
You think a girl has no personal expenses ? We do.
Which guy wants a girl who don't present herself well when they go out ?
The grooming expenses who pays ?
TS is so full of himself, that's the WRONG part.
She not working also abit wrong. Okay lah i agree sometimes need treat Gf, but now TS budget tight cannot always treat her this and that mah. If the gf is sensible, she will go out work and dont keep expecting treat mah. Can pay de jiu ownself pay, since Bf budget tight. But now she not working and everything expect treat, not wrong meh.
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Originally posted by TTFU:
She not working also abit wrong. Okay lah i agree sometimes need treat Gf, but now TS budget tight cannot always treat her this and that mah. If the gf is sensible, she will go out work and dont keep expecting treat mah. Can pay de jiu ownself pay, since Bf budget tight. But now she not working and everything expect treat, not wrong meh.
I agree, she has to pay if she is the one who desires the entertainment activities.
But if TS is the one keep wanting to go outside and seek entertainment. Then it is ridiculous to expect the girl to keep paying her own share when it wasn't her idea wat.
Since he is so poor, then go and do things himself.. don't bring the girl along lah.
When a guy ask girl out, want to go chiong here chiong there.. then she has to pay her way to accompany him... that;s just ridiculous, no ?
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Originally posted by jojobeach:
I agree, she has to pay if she is the one who desires the entertainment activities.
But if TS is the one keep wanting to go outside and seek entertainment. Then it is ridiculous to expect the girl to keep paying her own share when it wasn't her idea wat.
Since he is so poor, then go and do things himself.. don't bring the girl along lah.
When a guy ask girl out, want to go chiong here chiong there.. then she has to pay her way to accompany him... that;s just ridiculous, no ?
Aiyo then stay at home more watch dvd then. I know some girls dont mind going dutch and pay for her own entertainment, cause keep take money also not li suo dang ran, but abit paiseh lah for the guy, few times treat still okay lah. If no money then talk to her loh, reduce the number of dates, or go dutch more.