We are both adults. I am working almost everyday so that i can survive and look after my family. Right now i can hardly maintain my expenses because i got a lazy girlfriend who does not want to work and contribute. I am troubled. Anyone can help?
ask her to pay her own share
state very clearly u not going to å…» her
somemore is just gf, no jie fen yet
You suay got a gf like fireice like that.
Veryday stay at home zhou bo and want the guy to support her.
arranged someone to f*** her ...she will wake up and run for her life like hell ....then repentant will surely steps in....
anyway...plenty like her...she is not the only one,,thanks to the system that spoils them
she got ask u for money or not
if never ask then nothing to take care of what
why the hell does your girlfriend need to contribute to your family expenses? As Kopi said, if she never ask you for money, there is no problem. Not even married yet......
Not happy then just dump her lor.
Never ask money from me but every time go out together i must pay right? Where got nothing to take care? Every time money money until i no money.
打她
or breakup
why the hell does your girlfriend need to contribute to your family expenses? As Kopi said, if she never ask you for money, there is no problem. Not even married yet......
Not happy then just dump her lor.
I did not expect her to contribute for my family la. I will be god damn happy if she can pay for her own expenses. What i meant was if we are to get married. But i doubt so.
Originally posted by cannonprinter:why the hell does your girlfriend need to contribute to your family expenses? As Kopi said, if she never ask you for money, there is no problem. Not even married yet......
Not happy then just dump her lor.
I did not expect her to contribute for my family la. I will be god damn happy if she can pay for her own expenses. What i meant was if we are to get married. But i doubt so.
Don't marry her. Don't beat her, if not you will be in trouble if she reports you to the police.
If you are for marriage, state it clear with your next potential that you are into AA.
well if u want a housewife then it'll be this way, u still gotta pay for food at least.
so to me if she doesn't ask u for money then its still ok.
if u dun want a housewife, then u better kick her ass and tell her to wake up her idea
Just f**k her, get her pregnant and than dump her
Tell her nicely that your pay is not enough to maintain expenses, and that your gf needs to work in order to live a confortable life. If next time get married, even need more money. Not contributing nvm, but at least dont be a liabilty to you. If she loves you and understand your situation, she will listen and find a job. If she insults you and xian qi you, just dump her away. Good riddiance.
The title is 'How to deal with a lazy girl friend?'
Which means TS do not want to dump her.
Reading carefully, the problem is not that she is lazy. The problem is the TS expenses, and he is finding it hard to make ends meet. TS wishes the girl friend has an income.
1. Get the girl a job.
2. Earn more money.
inspire and motivate her to be more hardworking with your loving tender care. I am sure she will be touched by your love one day.
Break up. Havent married already so lazy, need to feed like a pet.
Become couple already how to survive?
Unless you buy rabbit food and feed her and she eats it. LOL... Then u take it that you have a pet rabbit.
Originally posted by cannonprinter:Never ask money from me but every time go out together i must pay right? Where got nothing to take care? Every time money money until i no money.
who said every time go out you must pay? if that's the case then tell her she needs to pay her share lor. Or BREAK UP
Born kids liao then sure never work liao haha. Headache ar, better consider carefully.
Originally posted by Daveteo:Just f**k her, get her pregnant and than dump her
alamak how can like that ??? must pay child support leh..............
solution very simple mah.............this type of girl if you marry her, you're as good as dead...........the divorce settlements will kill you................if got child. confirm die faster...............
so only solution is to dump the lazy slut.................unless she is cuter and sexier than Fiona Xie...............
Maybe discuss with her your concern.
TS doesnt know how to break the 'go-dutch' line?
Originally posted by Lorry`:TS doesnt know how to break the 'go-dutch' line?
She no money no point going dutch. In the end i still have to pay. Anyways, i think i have made up my mind. I will try talking to her again and prepare to say good bye if things did not go well.
Originally posted by hisoka:who said every time go out you must pay? if that's the case then tell her she needs to pay her share lor. Or BREAK UP
How many people in sgforums can go out with your partner or friends without spending money? you bring your lunch box along too? or you just plainly sit in the void deck and play your guitar?
no offence but i think you did not put yourself in my shoes and would never understand how i feel.
If breaking up is so easy then i guess you have not truly love someone before.
Talk to her nicely then, if she is the kind that doesnt borther. Why borther ?
Originally posted by cannonprinter:We are both adults. I am working almost everyday so that i can survive and look after my family. Right now i can hardly maintain my expenses because i got a lazy girlfriend who does not want to work and contribute. I am troubled. Anyone can help?
just ask her to fark off ...