Will you return stuff to ur ex once break up?
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My ex bf returned all the stuffs i bought for him. People come to your doorstep with one big bag of coz accept it la. Can pass down to my cousin also. Save money. but i wont return him anything.LOL.
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Nah, don't return, I just throw them away...
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if u return, it may hurt your ex's feelings. might as well throw them away.
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wah ur ex bf sibei childish hor.Originally posted by CfCJ:My ex bf returned all the stuffs i bought for him. People come to your doorstep with one big bag of coz accept it la. Can pass down to my cousin also. Save money. but i wont return him anything.LOL.
good ting dat u've dumped him. -
i think so too. HENG ARH. Ti Gong PO PI
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If TS dowan them anymore, he can donate them to Salvation Army or sell to karung guni and donate the proceeds lor..... Rut to return? Preposterousity of the most monstrous proportions leh!
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... nope return 4wat i just keep all of it in a box
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i won't return...what's the point?Originally posted by James1:suan liao la, spoilt lim bei mood....one ppl say i childish, the other say repeat after me....i onli ask how many of u will return stuff to ur ex this and that, reply either yes i will return or no i wont return veri hard meh? -
some stuffs are temporarily put at ur place shld return mah
gifts alrd given to u shld not -
dun return unless she/he ask for it. else put it aside....
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What I did the last time was to return the stuff my ex gave me when he asked to be together. Tho it was I who wanted the breakup, I didnt want to keep anything that was from him.
There were other things as well which I threw away tho I kept those that could be reused like bags for storage. If I returned it to him, he probably wouldnt know what to do with them.
Some may not do the same things I did but for myself, I saw it as a way to end a chapter. -
i throw everything
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I threw everything away too, but i will pawn the gold necklace and those diamond rings and ear rings, take the money, go discos and drink till siao liao.
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ya should return. lols
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Originally posted by James1:suan liao la, spoilt lim bei mood....one ppl say i childish, the other say repeat after me....i onli ask how many of u will return stuff to ur ex this and that, reply either yes i will return or no i wont return veri hard meh?
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Most people who return the things usually harbour a hidden desire to actually make the other party feel "guilty" and "sentimental", in hopes of the other party coming back.
Not all of course. Just most. -
can used de like cup or other item keep lor...
if is something to keep to remember the other person and no used de throw away lor... -
i also give more than i take..Originally posted by browniebaobao:usually i give more than i receive..
but i wun ask to have them back..
until now still have the me 2 u bear that my first love gave me..
he asked for a pic we took together when i initiated the break..
i chosed not to keep anything.. make a clean break.. -
This is a mistake. Anyway since you already did that, next time pause prior to responding to your impulse.Originally posted by James1:I just want to know how many of you will request to return stuff to your ex once break up? I just did yesterday, I went to meet my ex below her block and return everything to her of all she gave me during our time when we are together such as T-shirt, ear-rings, etc. Because this will not remind me of my sadness. It was her who initial the break up...
Those gifts from her, would have burn bright and turn into sweet memories, long after time has smoothen out the rough edges of relationships. These are treasured memories that one will have with time as it's essential companion. I supposed you might missed those items she gave you, when the passage of time has straightened out all your misgivings.
Remember it's not in obtaining what we want (as the final result) that matters, it's the journey that gives us the satisfying outcome. As you might have known the adage, nothing is permanent but change, then so is life.
With possession, everything changes - your desire to own it in the first place will be tempered with forever.
Consider this a lesson learned.
Cheers. -
I keep them. My ex, some return, others throw.
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i'll keep them.. all of them.. well for me.. they bring back good memories.. be positive..
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DONATE DONATE donate to salvation army or what la...
dont waste.
err or sell on ebay, make some money. -
lol.. james is so eaily provoked.. but i agree with hello kitty..
its quite childish to return stuffs to EXs. isn't it weird..
she has given you those things and IT's YOURS.. throw them away or give it to other people if you do not want the items to remind u of her. I bet she's think "are you crazy?" AND... u return those to her, she can use it and give them to another guy.. how stupid?
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i request my ex to return everything i given her intact..should there be anything she is unable to return, she is required to return me the value of the item as per ( value of item / number of years together). Bills are kept to facilitate refund to the other party.
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u guys quite terrible la.. especially hello kitty, dun simply tell ppl childish la.. keep replying without using your brain is more childish la.
TS, nothing wrong with u giving her back or you throw away, we all just dun wan anything to remember especially when we went thru bad day with ex. Either way or throwing or giving back, its still a way to forgot those memory being together.
At least it makes u feel better right ? So, no worries, just ignore some kids here.
Next time, i suggest u throw away. cuz its a better way. Show her that her gifts are meaningless already. or if u wan to find some pocket money, sell the gifts to some kids or anyone with cheap price.
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I wouldn't want my ex to return me the stuffs that I had given him, nor would I like the idea of him requesting that I return him the stuffs he gave me before.
I mean since both of you are together before and you once willing to give her the gift, then just leave the stuffs as where it is la, no need to be so calculative right? If you don't like the stuffs to be seen after the breakup, then chuck it aside or just simply throw it away. So simple.