Will you return stuff to ur ex once break up?
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eh from the way u talk, u how old har?
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i did not return my ex all the stuff she made for me. it holds such beautiful memories. i refurbished my room and i bought 2 big boxes, put all that she had given me into the 2 boxes.
now the 2 boxes is tucked away nicely in my cupboard. i will still take them out and see sometimes. -
seriously.. i agree with the rest.. kind of childish... are u trying to take revenge by embarressing her cuz she initiate the breakup?? may i know hw old r u?? if still below 18, den its alrite, still a kid rite, guys??Originally posted by James1:I just want to know how many of you will request to return stuff to your ex once break up? I just did yesterday, I went to meet my ex below her block and return everything to her of all she gave me during our time when we are together such as T-shirt, ear-rings, etc. Because this will not remind me of my sadness. It was her who initial the break up...
if it remind u of sadness, juz throw it away!! hw cum NOW still got ppl return stuff one?? i wud rather u donate to charity... u STUFF WASTER!! -
used to have a very tumultous relationship haha. never threw away the stuff and glad i never did, after repeated demands. don;t know how, the relationship is always one way or other salvaged, till today.
i suppose u could keep the stuff, because love is such a complicated and simple enitity that no human has decoded. if she's always had been yours, she'll come back. circumstances do matter however, i'm just saying, room for hope? -
not childish...is serious...if u keep the things.it will remind u abt e past.which is v sad.Me i throw all letter tat we wrote to each other for the past few yrs.
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Next time, ask properly, you get the answer you want.Originally posted by James1:suan liao la, spoilt lim bei mood....one ppl say i childish, the other say repeat after me....i onli ask how many of u will return stuff to ur ex this and that, reply either yes i will return or no i wont return veri hard meh?
Ask like this, "SHOULD I return the gifts my ex gave me ?"
" IF no, what do you do with the gifts ?"
Very easy right ?
Ask straight to the point. -
No.
I will donate it to Salvation Army. -
i say dont need lahOriginally posted by James1:suan liao la, spoilt lim bei mood....one ppl say i childish, the other say repeat after me....i onli ask how many of u will return stuff to ur ex this and that, reply either yes i will return or no i wont return veri hard meh? -
Yes i did return some stuff to her. But i did not return those stuff meant for me etc shirts. I mean all these are no use to her right? I only return some vcds, some bears, some notes, some "friendship" band since she initiate the break.
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I didn't return him anything, because all given to me were gifts.
He onlly returned me my belongings like clothes and underwear etc.
The gifts we gave each other, we still use it.
But my previous ex, he was childish. He wanted me to return him the things he gave me, etc.
But until now, I havent had the time to meet him yet. -
of cos i know i long time never post le, but i dunno oso got people knowOriginally posted by sunny6110:u long time no post topic le u know?
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never return........... just put them in 1 corner
and my clothes.. one of em.. she also never return to me....... nb
whatever i bought for them never did i expect or want them to return to me.... thats like wtf lame -
too bad fer u, here no poll function loh.
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return if she asks for it.
If no, just keep it or sell it to buy gifts for new gf lor. -
mm i wouldnt say childish or what in returing the gifts to the ex.
Lets not argue..
For me, i am giving to my good friend for safe keep till i get over..thou its been 2.5 years liao..
Few days back i suddenly remember how we just first met..so funny. hai..
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I gave you my body...NOW GIVE ME YOUR BODYOriginally posted by jojobeach:Are you expecting her to reciprocate the action ?
Like, ok now I return you the gifts you gave me.
NOW GIVE ME BACK MINE !!
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i threw away some and kept some. but he returned his stuff to me. i think it's not necessary to return stuff to each other unless really very sentimental la.
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usually i give more than i receive..
but i wun ask to have them back..
until now still have the me 2 u bear that my first love gave me..
he asked for a pic we took together when i initiated the break.. -
I think if it is a girl who initiated the break n she wans to return the guy all the things he has given her over the years, its quite all right ba.
But for your case, i guess its nothing wrong to give back to her, be it out of revenge or dun wan to b reminded of her, u are the heartbroken 1, so u got your right to vent your saddness in a mild way?
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Wow, lots of crap going on in this thread, no ?Originally posted by James1:I just want to know how many of you will request to return stuff to your ex once break up? I just did yesterday, I went to meet my ex below her block and return everything to her of all she gave me during our time when we are together such as T-shirt, ear-rings, etc. Because this will not remind me of my sadness. It was her who initial the break up...
You're not childish, my dear. You're just thinking more than guys actually do, and that is GOOD. I repeat, GOOD. And other guys won't be able to understand that cause they don't understand girls, which is the main topic here. (:
But no, don't return the things unless she returns you yours. Store the things away, maybe a few years later you'll come across it. It's good memories (:
And don't dwell on that relationship. -
crap.
a few gers hv replied, negatively, to the ts liao. -
this is the year 2007. *eating popcorn*
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its all above my cupboard collecting dust
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Go yahoo auction or ebay and sell!!!!
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Originally posted by James1:u trying to provoke me ar? i onli agree wif wat he say got wrong si bo? knn, u play where wan?
this totally shows that he's still a goddamn kid!