Missing You Badly
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It seems that we are back to being strangers
My thoughts are free to go anywhere, but it's surprising how often they head in your direction
So, here I am, all by myself, thinking of you. There's a feeling inside and as hard as I try, it just won't go away.
Confession eliminates the burden of holding inside one's heart, was I wrong to do that.
You said you donÂ’t know how to face me thatÂ’s all
You said you needed more time.
I respect your decision
Now IÂ’m beginning to realize if everything was just my naive imagination from start
I know you may have your reasons, but I guess IÂ’ll be happier if you are to share it with me
Sometimes I really wonder if you are indeed so heartless or you are just having some concerns of your own which you donÂ’t wish to share
I seem to have lost myself all these while
I tried to keep myself very tired,believing that I can think less of you
Such that the very moment I reach home, I am knocking out in bed
But seriously I doubt it helps
Look at me now, look what've you done
And now, all that I ever held dear is just a memory, the times we spent, EVERYTHING
I just don't understand how God would let us meet, if there is no way for us to be together
It really hurts when you expected so much more
34 days and counting...
I MISS YOU
(Guys, I seek your genuine piece of advise on how should I move on next. Thanks a million!) -
If it does not hurt so bad... it cannot be so wonderful... better luck next time bah...
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better luck next time
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mad pencils club pls
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I miss you too
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Will there be a deadline to your grieving? how about another 6 more days to make it 40? Then stop.
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like that so easy... everyone that wants to stop smoking can simply stop by giving themselves a deadline... it is not so easy that is why it is so painful... liaoz...Originally posted by chin36:Will there be a deadline to your grieving? how about another 6 more days to make it 40? Then stop.
But like I said... not so painful won't be wonderful also... you cannot eat your cake and still have it. -
Not easy, but setting a deadline works for me. Its like a plan, a wakeup call, a target to not feel sad anymore.Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:like that so easy... everyone that wants to stop smoking can simply stop by giving themselves a deadline... it is not so easy that is why it is so painful... liaoz...
But like I said... not so painful won't be wonderful also... you cannot eat your cake and still have it. -
hmmmmmmm......Originally posted by chin36:Not easy, but setting a deadline works for me. Its like a plan, a wakeup call, a target to not feel sad anymore.
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Maybe someone should start a quit smoking thread and everyone can report their progress?Originally posted by AndrewPKYap:like that so easy... everyone that wants to stop smoking can simply stop by giving themselves a deadline... it is not so easy that is why it is so painful... liaoz...
But like I said... not so painful won't be wonderful also... you cannot eat your cake and still have it.
It sucks being a smoker. Hate the smell and it costs so much. Hai... -
I would think that the cig is a crutch... some sort of security blanket. When you are faced with life problems, you instinctively reach out for comfort and food as we all know can be comforting.Originally posted by jackdaniels:Maybe someone should start a quit smoking thread and everyone can report their progress?
It sucks being a smoker. Hate the smell and it costs so much. Hai...
When you are hungry, you feel miserable and when food enters your mouth, you feel better immediately.
So when you feel stressed or miserable, you instinctively put something in your mouth (cig) to make yourself feel better (even though it is not hunger, it works!)
The human brain... haiz....
I would think that if you learn to be happy, contented and motivated in your life, you will have less of a need for cigs.
They other way of course is to find something to replace the cig when you feel stressed and miserable. Instead of taking out a smoke, you find someone that will let you hug until the stress and misery goes away.
hahahaha how to find some that will let you hug every time you feel stressed and miserable? That is why quiting is so difficult!
so... Get your "living" and "life" "act" together and find a replacement...
Unfortunately chewing gum and similar replacements do not have a kick like smoking cigs or hugging someone...
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cry,scream, shout and do what you want.Originally posted by Ding Dong:It seems that we are back to being strangers
My thoughts are free to go anywhere, but it's surprising how often they head in your direction
So, here I am, all by myself, thinking of you. There's a feeling inside and as hard as I try, it just won't go away.
Confession eliminates the burden of holding inside one's heart, was I wrong to do that.
You said you donÂ’t know how to face me thatÂ’s all
You said you needed more time.
I respect your decision
Now IÂ’m beginning to realize if everything was just my naive imagination from start
I know you may have your reasons, but I guess IÂ’ll be happier if you are to share it with me
Sometimes I really wonder if you are indeed so heartless or you are just having some concerns of your own which you donÂ’t wish to share
I seem to have lost myself all these while
I tried to keep myself very tired, picking up new sports, believing that I can think less of you
But seriously I doubt it helps
Look at me now, look what've you done
And now, all that I ever held dear is just a memory, the times we spent, EVERYTHING
I just don't understand how God would let us meet, if there is no way for us to be together
It really hurts when you expected so much more
34 days and counting...
I MISS YOU
(Guys, I seek your genuine piece of advise on how should I move on next. Thanks a million!)
Life does not end the day she left
I know talking to you will not help.
But none of us here can help you but you yourself.
God let you 2 meet in order to let you treasure each person and everyone around us.
God would like you understand that there is such thing as pain and hurt then let you grow stronger for tougher task ahead.
Bro is time to face the fact the you and her not longer are together.
With this tell yourself is a closure. -
Another victim of confession. Don't get sad/upset/disappointed. Pretend nothing happens. Try to remain calm as if it doesn't bother you. Be thick-skin.Originally posted by Ding Dong:It seems that we are back to being strangers
My thoughts are free to go anywhere, but it's surprising how often they head in your direction
So, here I am, all by myself, thinking of you. There's a feeling inside and as hard as I try, it just won't go away.
Confession eliminates the burden of holding inside one's heart, was I wrong to do that.
You said you donÂ’t know how to face me thatÂ’s all
You said you needed more time.
I respect your decision
Now IÂ’m beginning to realize if everything was just my naive imagination from start
I know you may have your reasons, but I guess IÂ’ll be happier if you are to share it with me
Sometimes I really wonder if you are indeed so heartless or you are just having some concerns of your own which you donÂ’t wish to share
I seem to have lost myself all these while
I tried to keep myself very tired,believing that I can think less of you
Such that the very moment I reach home, I am knocking out in bed
But seriously I doubt it helps
Look at me now, look what've you done
And now, all that I ever held dear is just a memory, the times we spent, EVERYTHING
I just don't understand how God would let us meet, if there is no way for us to be together
It really hurts when you expected so much more
34 days and counting...
I MISS YOU
(Guys, I seek your genuine piece of advise on how should I move on next. Thanks a million!)
Don't even try to be her friend. Either she wants to be your lover or not. Accept nothing less than a boyfriend status. Otherwise forget her and look for greener pastures for this girl is not for you.
doko -
how can u be so sure that TS is a guy?Originally posted by dokono:Another victim of confession. Don't get sad/upset/disappointed. Pretend nothing happens. Try to remain calm as if it doesn't bother you. Be thick-skin.
Don't even try to be her friend. Either she wants to be your lover or not. Accept nothing less than a boyfriend status. Otherwise forget her and look for greener pastures for this girl is not for you.
doko
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Yupp, zeny and dokono are right. Yes, IÂ’m a guy.
Thanks you guys for your responses. -
There should always be a limit to our mourning. Like a canned food with an expiry date, we need to give ourselves some time to mourn, but remember not to make that prolonged.
Prolonged mourning will only result in stagnancy, and hinders progression.
If you confessed to her, and she is not responsive, then please, move on.
It is difficult, but it is possible. There is no point in holding on to shadows. -
Nice description. I was there once.Originally posted by Ding Dong:It seems that we are back to being strangers
My thoughts are free to go anywhere, but it's surprising how often they head in your direction
So, here I am, all by myself, thinking of you. There's a feeling inside and as hard as I try, it just won't go away.
Confession eliminates the burden of holding inside one's heart, was I wrong to do that.
You said you donÂ’t know how to face me thatÂ’s all
You said you needed more time.
I respect your decision
Now IÂ’m beginning to realize if everything was just my naive imagination from start
I know you may have your reasons, but I guess IÂ’ll be happier if you are to share it with me
Sometimes I really wonder if you are indeed so heartless or you are just having some concerns of your own which you donÂ’t wish to share
I seem to have lost myself all these while
I tried to keep myself very tired,believing that I can think less of you
Such that the very moment I reach home, I am knocking out in bed
But seriously I doubt it helps
Look at me now, look what've you done
And now, all that I ever held dear is just a memory, the times we spent, EVERYTHING
I just don't understand how God would let us meet, if there is no way for us to be together
It really hurts when you expected so much more
34 days and counting...
I MISS YOU
(Guys, I seek your genuine piece of advise on how should I move on next. Thanks a million!)
Cry loads and drinks lots of water so that you can cry more.
Listen to sad songs to release your emotions and continue to cry .
one day you will get sick of being such a crying loser. you will pick urself up.
Its not easy i know.. Find some good friends to hang out with, go for a drink or two, party like no one cares. Shop for some new clothes and have a new haircut.
Start Afresh.
Jiayou my friend! -
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Hi guys, I just wish to dedicate this piece of song to her. I find it to be exceptionally meaningful. Thank You.
Dear ~line,
Even thought I may not know whether you will accept me in the end or not. Nevertheless, the fact now is that we are not together. In my mind, at least I know I had happy moments with you. That was enough. You will always hold a special place in my heart.
I don't regret knowing you, that mile with you. At least it has been a beautiful, meaningful chapter of my life.
Thank you, thank you so much. I've learnt to be a better man, I've learnt to be strong, I've learnt that the meaning of life lies not in living a prosperous life, but to have a soul mate to share things with. I can only say, I hope to find you again. I wish you happiness, I wish you joy. Thank you.
All the best...
Cheers
Ding Dong
Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never met.
Yupp, I guess with this, I should put a closure to everything. -
It's good that you accept things for what they are. Continue to stay strong, and I'm sure that someone will come one day. All in His time, remember.Originally posted by Ding Dong:Hi guys, I just wish to dedicate this piece of song to her. I find it to be exceptionally meaningful. Thank You.
Dear ~line,
Even thought I may not know whether you will accept me in the end or not. Nevertheless, the fact now is that we are not together. In my mind, at least I know I had happy moments with you. That was enough. You will always hold a special place in my heart.
I don't regret knowing you, that mile with you. At least it has been a beautiful, meaningful chapter of my life.
Thank you, thank you so much. I've learnt to be a better man, I've learnt to be strong, I've learnt that the meaning of life lies not in living a prosperous life, but to have a soul mate to share things with. I can only say, I hope to find you again. I wish you happiness, I wish you joy. Thank you.
All the best...
Cheers
Ding Dong
Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never met.
Yupp, I guess with this, I should put a closure to everything.