i've given everything... yet i get nothing.
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hellos people.
first and foremost, i would like to see some opinions on some issues that i'll be discussing below between my girl and i. Thanks alot for everything.
what would u do if ur girlfren's super demanding. demanding over issues like whre u go, wat you do and stuff like that? like she needs an explaination everyday kinda thing. u have no authority at all. zero authority i might add. she expects you to do what she says... and she doesnt care if it means changing you inside out.
she wants you to be with her 24 hours 7 days a week, and the only day u get to go out with others are the days she's out with her frens. she doesnt allow you to talk to a single GIRL in any form of communication and she expects to see all the history of any conversation with girls. and she only allows you to meet up with church frens once a week, or else she'll flare up for no particular reason.
and when u try to explain to her, she doesnt care about what u say. all she wants is to let u noe how she feel, which results in flaring up and threatening to break up kinda thing. she doesnt care about what u wanna say to her, be it agreeing with the issue or disagreeing with it. she's stubborn in that fact and she only wants you to listen to her.
basically, she wants you to listen to her all the time and whatever she says or instruct you to do, you must do it.
welcome to my life. how sad can it be. i've given everything to her, simply because i love her, but thats all im getting in return. its been a long 10 mths already. we just had a major quarrel. simply cos i was telling her that i have my band jamming practice session on saturday and she doesnt like the idea of it. thus, she decided to swicth off her fone and be sad about it. and when i try to sms her to get her to get back to me, she tells me to fcuk off and get out of her life.
how? im too sad to be actually sad already. its just so....... sigh. -
love is a 2 way road...give and receive
HOWEVER
do not expect return when u give
care and concern is the issue here which i see lacking...i think for ur own sake..find a person who truely loves you
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Break it off with her if your heart tells u too.
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How old are the two of you?
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TS u dun need this girl, she just treat u as a slave only...she want a slave not a bf understand?...pull yaself out of this misery...
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eh u dating girl or ur mother ?
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wtf?Originally posted by Ferret:eh u dating girl or ur mother ? 
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The reason why you're posting this is because you dont like the idea and you're getting sick of it.
My suggestion? Follow your heart.
Cheers.
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wot ?Originally posted by TrixCereals:wtf?
hihi fancy breakfast.
sounds like dating mum wot
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we're both 19 this year. yup. it's sucha sad case eh.
i feel ashamed to even see myself like this i guess.
just called her and she's insulted me for no reason. -
more likely dating mother dun need to say...Originally posted by Ferret:eh u dating girl or ur mother ? ..to think of it, having this kind of gf is tantamount to having a mother go makan with u watch movie go seesighting etc...i think well..since ur having a gf , it must be a person u enjoy being with, not as if ya home that one is not enough for u like that... -
do u have a reason for her to insult u ?Originally posted by bLuR`bOy:we're both 19 this year. yup. it's sucha sad case eh.
i feel ashamed to even see myself like this i guess.
just called her and she's insulted me for no reason.
or do u like it ?
if not, ask her to get outta ur face. and life. -
Well, both of u r so young, it takes time to put things right ,give yourselves sometime and things will be fine
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at home got one liao. outside go find another.Originally posted by kengkia:more likely dating mother dun need to say... ..to think of it, having this kind of gf is tantamount to having a mother go makan with u watch movie go seesighting etc...i think well..since ur having a gf , it must be a person u enjoy being with, not as if ya home that one is not enough for u like that...
gee.
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why be with someone u not happy with?
love is not about insulting each other..its not about stress -
Nope. There aint no reason. Probably because she's in a bad mood i guess.
and of cus i dun like it. Who likes to get scolding for no particular reason?
but i guess i love her. -
I think the girl just simply not mature enough for a relationship. Someone who is mature enough would not demand her bf to do all the things she demanded you to do. She is not only possessive, but also condenscending and is a control freak, if what you say above is true.Originally posted by bLuR`bOy:we're both 19 this year. yup. it's sucha sad case eh.
i feel ashamed to even see myself like this i guess.
just called her and she's insulted me for no reason.
Relationship is all about compromising. Ask her if she knows the meaning of compromising. -
what made u fall in love with her and be with her in the first place?Originally posted by bLuR`bOy:Nope. There aint no reason. Probably because she's in a bad mood i guess.
and of cus i dun like it. Who likes to get scolding for no particular reason?
but i guess i love her.
and bad mood doesn't give her the right to insult you
seriously..why u 2 were together in the first place? what is it about her u are attracted to? -
Let her fuck out of your life. You don't need such a unreasonable girl.Since you can find a girlfriend I am sure you can find another out there.Good Luck.Originally posted by bLuR`bOy:hellos people.
first and foremost, i would like to see some opinions on some issues that i'll be discussing below between my girl and i. Thanks alot for everything.
what would u do if ur girlfren's super demanding. demanding over issues like whre u go, wat you do and stuff like that? like she needs an explaination everyday kinda thing. u have no authority at all. zero authority i might add. she expects you to do what she says... and she doesnt care if it means changing you inside out.
she wants you to be with her 24 hours 7 days a week, and the only day u get to go out with others are the days she's out with her frens. she doesnt allow you to talk to a single GIRL in any form of communication and she expects to see all the history of any conversation with girls. and she only allows you to meet up with church frens once a week, or else she'll flare up for no particular reason.
and when u try to explain to her, she doesnt care about what u say. all she wants is to let u noe how she feel, which results in flaring up and threatening to break up kinda thing. she doesnt care about what u wanna say to her, be it agreeing with the issue or disagreeing with it. she's stubborn in that fact and she only wants you to listen to her.
basically, she wants you to listen to her all the time and whatever she says or instruct you to do, you must do it.
welcome to my life. how sad can it be. i've given everything to her, simply because i love her, but thats all im getting in return. its been a long 10 mths already. we just had a major quarrel. simply cos i was telling her that i have my band jamming practice session on saturday and she doesnt like the idea of it. thus, she decided to swicth off her fone and be sad about it. and when i try to sms her to get her to get back to me, she tells me to fcuk off and get out of her life.
how? im too sad to be actually sad already. its just so....... sigh. -
She's using you as her own personal b*tch on a leash. Break up with her.
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she wasnt like that for the first 5 mths. it only got really really bad recently. it exploded today. hmmm.
sometimes, i find myself giving more than receiving. its just so hard. i guess its time to end. -
wad made me fall in love with her was what she was in the beggining i guess. all sweet and all... just lovely. hmmm.
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After a while in a rs, all the flaws will start to show. This is her REAL self.Originally posted by bLuR`bOy:wad made me fall in love with her was what she was in the beggining i guess. all sweet and all... just lovely. hmmm.
Can you see yourself being wif such a girl for the rest of your life? -
Show her some guy power...
lol...
Your post is asked how to show guy power??? >< -
to be honest, i cant. i told her about compromising and she just told me that in her dictionary, there isnt a word compromise. zzzz.